LOVE is More Than a Feeling: Showing GOD’s LOVE Through Action

LOVE is our theme of the month, and we are working on learning ways to show LOVE other than just telling someone that we LOVE them. Our kids have brainstormed some fun and budget-friendly ways to show LOVE for others. We want to learn to create memories without spending a fortune.

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A Look At February: Planning for a LOVE filled Month

I will say that last month went pretty well, and our home does feel a bit more PEACEful. This month, our theme will be LOVE. We will be looking at ways that we can be more intentional in showing LOVE to others through our actions.

I’m going to take a quick look at what we have planned for the month so you can get a little idea about how all of our systems work with each other.

Calendar

My morning routine means that I check our calendar every morning, and here is what I am looking at:

  • There are few appointments that are noted, and I have reminders set in my Cozi app. One appointment is this week, so I remind my husband about it to make sure he remembers.
  • There are a couple of birthdays, and I am noting the special meals in my planner.
  • A few ‘special holidays‘ that we would like to include.
  • Days that the public school will be out for one of the older kids.
  • I also try to look for a day that will be a good time to go to the flea market or produce market for seasonal produce.

Chores

I also like to review the chores at the beginning of the week, as we have them listed by daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly.

Daily chores are pretty automatic, but our monthly chores rotate by the day of the month… I try to keep things as easy as I can.

Some of our daily chores include:

  • Getting ready for the day – make beds, brush teeth/hair, get dressed
  • Animal/Garden chores – watering and feeding
  • Breakfast – see our Breakfast Routine here
  • Laundry – see our Laundry Routine here
  • Planning the day – check calendar, to-do list, meal plan, etc.
  • Morning Routine – see a sample day here
  • School
  • Lunch
  • Quick Clean up
  • Afternoon Chores – water animals, check eggs, etc.
  • Dinner
  • Clean up

If you click on the links, you can find more in-depth information about each task.

Some of my weekly chores are:

  • Home Blessings
  • Homeschool Planning – look for lessons ideas to go along with our monthly task and upcoming holidays
  • Menu Planning – check that we have everything we need for upcoming meals
  • Garden Planning – check what needs to be transplanted, seeded, started, and bought.
  • Other Planning – Valentine’s Day, Super Bowl?, President’s Day, income taxes, and possible outings/vacation; check for upcoming birthdays and anniversaries
  • Grocery Shopping & Errands
  • Desk Work/Paper Work/Bill Pay/Budgeting

Some of the monthly chores this month are:

  • cleaning light fixtures/cobwebs
  • cleaning the tops of the fridges and freezers
  • cleaning windows and doors -washing curtains and/or blinds
  • cleaning out the top cabinets and wiping all the cabinet fronts
  • deep cleaning the countertops, sinks, dishwasher, cutting boards, and dish drainer
  • cleaning under the sink, and the kitchen drawers
  • deep clean the stove and oven
  • declutter the dish cabinet and island storage
  • move and clean behind the large appliances
  • take an inventory of what we have in the freezer and pantry – incoporate things into the menu
  • clean/organize the linen cabinet
  • deep clean the vacuum cleaner, and clean/change filters for the vacuum and ACs
  • deep clean the high chairs
  • deep clean bathrooms

Some of the yearly chores for this month are:

  • defrost freezers (this can be done when we inventory the frozen foods as we can place foods outside in coolers on a cold day)
  • deep clean the porches: windows, cobwebs, sweep, clean furniture, etc.

Sometimes the kiddos are tempted to skip over chores, but it catches up to them later on when things break down or run out. We are trying to teach them important skills that they will need later on in life, skills that will hopefully make them successful in all that they do.


Homeschool

Today, I check my Homeschool Manager app for anything that I might not have added to the main calendar. I normally look over the next week’s schedule on Thursdays, after we finish our school work.

  • I note when we plan to start back.
  • I add the appointments to the monthly lesson plan calendar as well, so I can plan accordingly. I realize that I may need to alter our start date and just use that as a Home Blessing day to get the house back in order, so I just swap a few things around really quick.
  • I also go ahead and update the sites for our lessons so everything is set to go for Monday!

These quick changes will keep us from having a very frustrating week back to school… at least I pray it will.

This month, I will be focusing on adding Fine Arts tasks to our homeschool routine, so I will look over those tasks to see what I can work in with our lessons.

Fine Arts(february)

We want our kids to know that you don’t have to buy things to show others how much they mean to you. Often, handmade gifts have more meaning to the recipient.

Some ways we are doing this are:

  • Art Studies:
    • Study sacred art and music
    • create art projects inspired by Bible stories or verses
  • Hymn Studies:
    • study hymns and music that appreciate the beauty of GOD’s creation
  • Research gifts and talents from GOD:

Devotional

We have a new devotional for the month as well – I did make it for 31 days, so it could be used at any time of the year.

A Love That Never Fails


Bill Paying

I usually sit down to pay bills on Fridays.

  • Pay the bills due, pay more if money allows
  • Check accounts to see what payments have cleared, and highlight them on the worksheet
  • Note any bills still left to pay

I usually do this first, so I know what I have left to spend. My bill pay worksheet makes things much simpler as I can see what I have paid, and what needs to be paid.


Meal Planning & Grocery Shopping

I normally do my menu planning on Wednesday or Thursday. I print out a couple of meal planning sheets and a grocery list so I can fill them in as I look over our Winter Meal Plan.

  • I write in the birthdays and special holidays for the month, and then add those ingredients to the grocery list. Clicking on the link will give you a ready-made list of holidays for the month and links to recipes and menu ideas to make them special.
  • I look over the planned meals and pencil them in.
  • I note the days when we have appointments and swap those meals for easier meals, if needed.
  • I check the grocery list that the kids have been filling out on the fridge, and add items to the main list.
  • I also check my pantry restock list to see what I need to add to the list, if money allows.
  • I make sure I have the ingredients to preserve the produce that I plan to pick up this month as well. I will add supplies to the grocery list, if needed. Some of these posts have not been published yet, but you should be able to find the printables in the library.
  • I will either schedule a time to go shopping or place an order for groceries and set a delivery or pickup time that works for us. When I go to town, I usually plan to take care of several errands at once.
  • At the beginning of the month, I will also place a Sam’s Club order for bulk supplies to be shipped, as well as any supplies we need from Amazon.

Special Holiday Meals: February Edition

Some of the pantry restock items I added to list are:

  • Yeast
  • Salt
  • Pasta
  • Pasta Sauce
  • one other item that I choose

Some of the produce I’d like to buy for preserving:

  • Cabbage
  • Broccoli/Cauliflower
  • Dry beans for canning

If money is short, we can skip the restock and the preserving items until next month. I don’t like to skip things too often, but we do have our pantry pretty well stocked, and as long as we replace what we use, we should be fine.


Garden & Animals

I usually try to get feed and garden supplies once a month to cut down on the number of trips I make to town. The feed store is in the opposite direction of our normal grocery store, and I need all the space in the back of the van for feed, so I can’t really combine these tasks, or I would.

I go out to the greenhouse and garden just about every day, so I keep a running list of things that I need. I will also check my monthly list of tasks that need to be done. I went over my lists this weekend, and I have:

  • placed online orders for seeds and plants

I need to:

  • get some more seeds started for the Spring
  • finish putting together the new raised beds
  • get the pile of mulch/soil into the new beds
  • transplant some of the cool weather crops out to the garden beds
  • set up bird feeders
  • deep clean the coops/pens
  • work on bed layouts/Rotational Planting/Companion Planting
  • sift the vermicompost to make potting soil for the new seeds – I actually tried a new seed starting mix that you can see here:

Some of the tasks are also listed with my yearly tasks to make sure that I don’t forget them 🙂

I also check with the kids to see what animal feed we have, check that against my master inventory list, note down what we need in my phone, and then I will make time to go get the feed. I try to combine a few tasks during the same trip.

When I go to get the feed I will:

  • get feed and animal supplies
  • pick up seeds or plants at the Farm Center
  • check with the nursery to see what they might have available
  • stop at the grocery store, if there is anything we need before the next grocery order
  • fill up with gas on the way home

When I get home, I always have the kids unload the feed right away, mix anything that needs to be mixed, and put the surplus in the old freezer that we use for storage. Once the feed is taken care of, they will clean out the back of the van 🙂

I try to make sure to do this mid-week, as Fridays & Saturdays are a bit crowded at the Feed Store. It’s always a bit stressful when we get too low on feed as well, so by making sure we have a regular schedule, we can alleviate some of the stress and replace it with PEACE, as we know we have what we need. We can also use these tasks as ways to show LOVE to one another.


To-Do List

I also like to start a To-Do List because things always pop up that I can’t fix right away. I also find things when I am out in the garden that need to be taken care of, I will usually snap a photo and then add it to the list if it can’t be taken care of right away.

This is our list so far:

  • Master Bathroom
  • build new garden beds – we finished the first ones, but then bought more
  • add solar lights to chicken coops
  • finish chicken tractor
  • hang cameras
  • put the StarLink on a pole
  • add trellises to garden beds
  • create a sensory garden and/or integrate sensory-themed activities into our existing garden

It isn’t too long yet, but it will grow longer the further we get into the year… hopefully, we can stay on top of it.

This is just a quick look at my weekly plans… I have all month long to work on some of them, and I will try to knock out as many as I can. I know that by handling the smaller things now, it will free up time I might need in the future for BIGGER and BETTER things. A little maintenance helps to keep things running nice and smooth… it also helps us to appreciate all that we have been BLESSED with.

I pray that you will find something useful in these links.

God Bless!

A New Year of Old Traditions

We have been on a mission to bring our family closer together. This is something we have prayed long and hard about, and GOD is working!

We love a lot of old traditions and customs, along with some of the new ones. We try to have at least one or two ‘family get-togethers’ here at our home. The biggest is probably our annual Polar Express party around Christmas time… this has been happening for a while now, and everyone looks forward to it. Why stop at that? We were trying to have a special Sabbath meal each week, and also trying to plan a monthly family dinner with Papa and Nanny, but those got sidelined a bit.

Why? Well, our priorities shifted, and other things seemed more important. We have to make room and time for the people and things we truly love, so I am on a mission to bring back our family dinners. They may not be quite as fancy as they once were, because I’m still exhausted from all the challenges we had last year, but they will be fun.

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Finding Peace Through Routines

I had planned to write this post earlier, but I’ve been a bit busier than expected. It’s better late than never, right? We have had a lot going on, but I haven’t stressed. I have had an unusual sense of CALM and PEACE that I haven’t felt in a long time, so I really want to share what works for our family.

I read something earlier today about stress, worry, and anxiety coming from feeling like we don’t have control over the future… guess what? No one has control over the future… we have to trust in GOD and surrender those feelings to HIM. When we do this, we will become rooted in HIM, and HE will give us PEACE.

Now, this doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t plan for the future, or neglect our responsibilities, but we should release the stress of them to GOD. We can rest in the assurance that HE is in control, and HE will do what is best for us. We need to make sure that we are taking care of all that HE has BLESSED us with, and do our best to model HIS love to our families and all of those around us.

The Proverbs 31 woman shows us some of the ways that she modeled this attitude. We can strive to be more like her in our lives. I am working on a study for this!

First thing, I want to remind you that everyone’s home and family are different, so what works for me or someone else may not work for you. However, if you take some of what works for me and tweak it for your family, I truly believe you will find a bit of peace in your routines.

A long time ago, I made a file card system to help keep our chores organized. I then expanded that to include other areas of our lives to keep me from forgetting important events. It also helps me to think about things beforehand so I can better prepare for them. Am I always prepared for things that happen unexpectedly? No, but I can usually pull something together pretty quickly to accommodate changes because of the routines that we already have in place.

Household Routines File Set Up: OVERVIEW

As I said, household chores were a BIG challenge for me at one time in my life. Part of that was that someone I was with insisted that a spotless house needed to be my TOP PRIORITY… things have since changed for the better, and we are not around this person anymore. This system came about as an effort to find a balance between a clean house, a garden, and my kids. It was very successful at helping us get the things completed as they needed to be, and I no longer had to fight any LAUNDRY MONSTERS.

The next biggest challenge I faced was the ‘What’s for Dinner?’ dilemna. Thankfully, that question was included in the daily routines that I had created with our previous system, but I needed to work on it a bit. I started meal planning, which helped me develop a better grocery shopping routine. Previously, I had just gone to the grocery store with no real plan, and shopped for my usuals and then just tried to make them last through the month. If something unexpected came up, I didn’t have a plan for it.

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Which Calendar Did I Choose?

If you saw the updates to the previous post, then you will know I was having a hard time making a decision about which calendar to use.

Both of them had things I really liked, the vertical one was easier to find a place to put and I really liked the layout.

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